Did you know that there are some questions you must ask yourself before getting married to the love of your life.
When we are in love the feeling will be like, “I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you”
Have you asked yourself over and over again why you are in the relationship and if you are ready to spend the rest of your life with him/her?
You don’t really share love during dating or courting, the practice of love starts after marriage, that is when you start to know the kind of person your lover is.
5 questions you must ask yourself before getting married
Here are the questions you must ask yourself before getting married in order to have happy marriage life
1. Does he/she adds value to my life?
You should be with a partner who will truly add to your worth. During courting you must have known whether you are achieving what you ought to achieve.
There is no sense in staying with someone who will not add to your worth or will reduce it. It is very essential to be with someone who will support you and make life meaningful for you.
2. Is he/she my best friend?
You can’t stay married and happy, if it’s all about sex, it would be boring, that is why you see some couples after five to ten year of marriage, they prefer living separately.
Your partner should be your best friend, companion, soul mate, gist mate, which you can’t afford to miss.
Most successful marriage are based on friendship. Best friend are always best lovers.
3. Is he/she the right person for me?
Before making a life contract, think deeply whether you are with the right person, check yourself whether you are not getting married blindly because of beauty, this is the advice I usually give.
Marriage is not all about beauty, sex or money. You must examine yourself vigorously. Is he/she the right person for me?
Hope am not patching my relationship? Will she/he add to my worth? ” These are the questions you must ask yourself before taking your relationship to another level.
4. Am I ready to settle for marriage?
Most people think marriage is always romantic as dating or courting, they usually rush into marriage without knowing the story is always different.
Before saying yes, I do, you must be ready to sacrifice in order to keep the marriage going on smoothly.
A good marriage always starts with two lovers who are ready to sacrifice anything for each other.
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5. Is she/he a real or broken person?
Broken man/woman is like a strange, complicated breed who can’t help himself with feelings, he/she is unable to control his/her emotions.
He/she goes through motion of wanting to be in a relationship, without any zeal of commitment.
Real man/woman is a person that shower his wife/husband with love, care and affection. He/she empowers and encourages his/her to have a better life.
Most people fall in the hands of wrong lover whom they know is a broken person, but because of the love they have for such person.
They prefer to patch the relationship until it leads to marriage unknowing that any relationship that is patched during courting always shattered after wedding.
Therefore, ask yourself all these questions before saying yes, I do, in order to have a wonderful marriage life. Choose wisely!